TY - JOUR AU1 - McGOLDRICK, MONICA AU2 - PRETO, NYDIA GARCIA AB - Americans are marrying out of their ethnic groups at an ever‐increasing rate, reflecting the expectation that people in this country will assimilate into what has been termed the “melting pot.” We know, however, that not all ingredients in the pot have melted and that ethnic values and identification remain with us for generations. The difficulties inherent in intermarriage then become intensified by being unanticipated. We confuse the idea that we are all created equal with the belief that we are all the same. This paper presents a paradigm for understanding the family patterns and typical problems of intermarried couples, and offers suggestions for clinical intervention. We will present a framework for helping spouses to recognize, understand, and negotiate their differences. We are keenly aware of the perniciousness of negative stereotyping in our culture and in no way wish to contribute to that tendency. We wish instead to provide a map that, although covering only limited aspects of the terrain, may nevertheless provide a guide to explorers seeking a path to expand our clinical sensitivity and effectiveness. TI - Ethnic Intermarriage JF - Family Process DO - 10.1111/j.1545-5300.1984.00347.x DA - 1984-09-01 UR - https://www.deepdyve.com/lp/wiley/ethnic-intermarriage-BPNCkmSufQ SP - 347 VL - 23 IS - 3 DP - DeepDyve ER -